Hi John, Your post sounds exactly like me, except in the male form. And one pair of socks. I feel alone more because I feel that no one will really be able to relate to me, but I do not feel bad about myself whatsoever. I cant stand to be away from my apaprtment for too long i dont feel safe and i feel out of place everywhere elses. Rachmanrob August 20th, 2016 Believe beyond all doubt that you have something to offer! But that’s an issue of another sort. Mine April 26th, 2017 I understand that this feels very difficult to do. , etc., etc.”. Not only do I love the clothes but they have the absolute best customer service. My life changed forever that night! I am 33 years old. now my best friend has a boyfriend and spend no time with me because they’re always togther. I see loneliness as being part of our human condition, just as being geared towards negativity is. Amazing quality products and the absolute best designs. Write a review. But I remember being this way, you’re so right. Reply !how can I have so much luv yet be so lonely.i m also the oldest of 15!!! Maybe as children we were terrified of sadness and what that could mean for us so we kept resisting those uncomfortable feelings. Precisely my response – wow, he is excluding so many, who don’t have the “right” quality. The dog Louie is good also, probably would make a better salesperson than the owner. Wendy July 9th, 2014 It’s hard to accept feeling alone when I do. Really nice clothes, great message and the online helpdesk (how do I wash this shirt??) I don’t have major issues. There’s already enough self blame. I seem to have a lot of social anxiety and feel insecure around certain people..I have battled with drinking and anger because of it….. But have you ever went anywhere in public and for no reason at all, to give a smile to someone. I have a small family but I don’t feel it at times. I understand how you feel when I was your age my dad wasn’t around and my mom would always go out with her friends so I felt like she never had time for me either. Also 100% ethical clothing which is amazing!!! She tries to explain that i can not tell the guy and his family that i like someone else but i can stay quite if they ask me if i am happy. Be patient and speak kindly to yourself, and if you just can’t leave he house, accept that for today and find a way to enjoy your living space. know what i mean? I feel even bad for the ppl that hang on at my side , deep on me I know they will go someday. Terry August 14th, 2016 Only leave the house to go to college, but that’s pretty much it. Like Dawson and all of us, baby steps. Jim April 15th, 2014 i dont know in my environment (may be i am not Lucky ) is jus another problem to know some one, While reading this article, I felt like I was reading myself. Please jst let him know how you feel about him and find him something that can make him forget about his bad thoughts. Due to such I started envolving myself with TV & net surfing, that converts in watching po*n sites & some bad health destructive habbits. I have been struggling with personal issues for 10 years and have found reaching out online to seek the advice of others has helped me through the good and bad time. Please keep it up. It’s normal to feel lonely and even fear loosing people at times. It’s been like this my whole life and I’m in my 40’s now. I have no religion, so I will keep my views to my self in that regard. I also have a lot of jealousy issues. Good quality clothes made ethically, and a great customer experience. My life changed forever that night! She is a really nice girl and i have full faith in her but i sometimes start getting pissed at her as if she’s happy and doing nothing to protect the relationship. I was a very social, excitable person who enjoyed being around many people. Your email address will not be published. Will buy again. i feel like im a disappointment sometimes but hey i feel like im not. alina May 7th, 2014 From childhood i heard bad about me so i always try to please people. So I told her how I felt and she started spending more time with me. If you feel your Critical Inner Voice has taken you over, you may benefit from seeking professional help. Many people have found therapy to be incredibly helpful. Thank you!! Those kind of things may feel awkward at first, but generally boosts your self image and confidence after a little while! so so so no jobs in my home town, & haters of peoples. Reply I also constantly worry about others’ opinion of me. I am a beautifull pracefull new city. I know, I feel the same. But since then my teachers all started looking at me differently and my name was cancelled from the price list that year as the best student, I didn’t cry for the price I lost but cried because my comfort zone is no longer my comfort zone its been destroyed by my own mother, she wasn’t leaving with us I expected her to trust me but clearly she didn’t those were things that killed me inside but I could share with anybody. I did not foresee my inability to obtain a loan and was, therefore, dis-enrolled. There are several factors that lead individuals to feel lonely. Sorry I am very lonely and isolated and I used to be pretty but not anymore Some people find that they feel better being around other people, even just reading a book or going online in a coffee shop can feel less isolating than being at home alone. I didn’t think life could become this sad and lonely . Today I have decided to follow the article’s advice and end the negative self-talk. Hi CJ We also promote positive mental health messaging, and raise money for charities such as Headspace Bondi Junction. If you need someone to talk to you can always call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255). I have not made a friend in a year and cry by myself when I feel too lonely. It was only this year sometime in July that I decided to attend a workshop on anxiety. Jesus said I am with you, I will never leave you or forsake you. I cannot recmmend them enough, I feel like they deserve more than five stars, even.Their clothes are high quality, with great designs, and fully ethical production. Also love the ethical message and am happy to support. assuming its more than a year now, things would have worked out one way or other I’m so glad I found somebody who could explain the way I feel everyday the way you did. I leaved with them till I was 5yr old and was brought back from the village to the city by then I couldn’t speak English anymore apart from our local dialect. My wife wants me to go back to work to get back my self confidence mainly and well extra income as well even though we wouldnt get any further ahead as children daycare costs etc. i think i will feel less unhappy with myself if i write it down. I would love to meet a new man or possibly get remarried but just am too shy and don’t have the drive like I used to in order to even try . Take care everyone here. Reply for my little girl, I don’t want to be a depressed mom. I got through most of them but not all. :) I don't think I've seen another store with a sewing studio before. They know what to say something and when to say it. At present I don’t know, what to do to overcome my loneliness and such bad things? Here’s the link: https://www.7cups.com/19659585 I am also planning to move abroad next year for masters and i’m pretty hopeful of getting a good job too to secure her future. I am considering moving several miles away alone away from everything and everyone that hurts me. Amazing company - promote positivity and straight up respect for everyone. I know my parents love me and they know about the depression , but I hide it as much as I can, I am seeing a therapist but I only see him once a month. Reply Reply I am tall, brown haired, clean shaven and in fairly good shape , and I am a vegetarian. This article is quit generous BT not fully satisfying, as just by interacting people online wouldn’t, solve this problem of mine since I m a teenaged colledge girl facing this kind of frustration while roaming around the campus , going across friends groups …… I behaive luk I m a soul whom is unseen to everyone .. I am looking for a job filling out application after application and can’t find anything. This is what I do, I want to find peace, and be strong for my little girl. Reply I have no great thing to offer, but I do hope as time goes on that your life improves in all the ways you want. But we’re adults now, we have the capacity and know-how of dealing with uncomfortsble feelings and thoughts(which often lead to loneliness). Revel in your independence, there is a whole world out there waiting to be explored if only through reading and visual arts, media and entertainment. Thinking about doing something bad to my good friends, and to strangers or characters I just made up in my mind. Has anyone noticed how empathetic, helpful and warm everyone here is? I am attractive, but feel undesirable still. The weird thing is I don’t know why I feel like this I grew up in a “normal middle class background” with a good childhood and loving parents I was always very shy with women and I try to fight the shyness bland make small talk if I can, but often I freeze up around beautiful women and I feel ashamed. Reply I would love to meet a new man or possibly get remarried but just am too shy and don’t have the drive like I used to in order to even try . Plus, in today’s world people are so isolated, everyone’s minding their own business, as people said it here it feels very superficial even when you go out with someone. Jim January 1st, 2019 you’ve made me smile. It’s hard, and I feel like I’m being isolated. I only have so much interest (but it is definitely there!) jill January 31st, 2014 Or perhaps you can trade with a mother of the classmates where you look after her kids one day and she does the next. I hurt my friends feelings by rejecting a gift! I am the only child in the family and I was feeling lonely since from my childhood days, but it was disappeared when I was at my 25 to 34 but it is coming again in my life and feeling worst now. If not, I think it would be a good idea to tell them. The dilemma I’m 40 and a full-time working mother of two teenagers.I have zero friends and few acquaintances. hes changed and hes constantly telling me im a bad girlfriend because i have trust issues because a relationship i had awhile ago where my best friend and my boyfriend of 2 years were talking and he cheated on me with her. I am 27, single, no friends and unemployed. From the outside I had it all, but on the inside I never did. It was unfair for me. I don’t want to be unhappy, nor do I want you to be. Ines November 25th, 2020 My parents never seem interested in anything and I am always the one starting conversations when I am around people, I do wait for others to start them or to ask me questions, but nobody ever does, my dad has never asked me about anything, my mom does occasionally, but I feel only half the time is listening. Wonderful stock, amazing vision, and these boiz are just the best! lol… but if you really arent joking around there are..hotlines or something that can hlep you out and disregard this post if you are. And we know how often those messages from society are healthful and totally concerned with our well-being Kudos to him for finding ways around it. She’s a survivor, etc. I can live in my back yard looking at the stars, or sitting on my sofa reading a novel. I love my son so much but im still lonely and depressed. We are not guaranteed a grand social life but there are many many things one can do if they can find the courage to face that they may have to “go it alone.” Find peace and harmony in how you individually relate to the universe, the stars are a wonder to behold and each of us is a part of it, each day is a gift. I wish I could talk to people who have seen life much better than I have. Very isolated and anti-social. I have a hard time relaxing around people and I think people can take me the wrong way. Reply please tell me a bit about whats going on for you to see if I can help! I’m so sick twisted inside I need help. I won’t waste my time with that (now in my 50’s). I’ll pray I can meet your challenge, to get out, meet others like you did. Take care and stay happy! Thinking about doing something bad to my good friends, and to strangers or characters I just made up in my mind. I have friends but mostly they are friends from high school and i don’t spend as much time with them also at church it’s mostly older people who are clickish and I’m trying to find a younger parish. He wont have anyone when he’s older. Products are always of a great quality, and I've had all of my pieces for years!! I did start feeling like I don’t matter at all. Buying clothes from here makes me feel less lonely. I love every item I've received so much, and lots of people comment on them as well!I'm so glad I was able to find them (via FriendlyJordies). I am really lonely. I don’t believe in therapy.. Part of it has to do with very low self confidence. 7Cups is the one website I always use and helped me a lot with my struggles; of any kind! No one seem’s to care about me (not in the attention-seeking way) in reality, no one has, so i don’t either, it’s really sad to be honest. Sandy, mine is the same story as yours but I’m only 26. We hope that you remain safe and continue to reach out. I’m 24, working 2 jobs, and trying to get through college. keep your head up, set up goals in life and if you cant…idk dream big , disregard if you ARENT.. -_- seriously this site is here to help people not make fun of. Plus, in today’s world people are so isolated, everyone’s minding their own business, as people said it here it feels very superficial even when you go out with someone. Reply information* Whenever I’m alone, taking a bath or in my room. Hi,well I’m a 44 yr old housewife with 11 children,so how can I be lonely?? Great local brand. Jess February 5th, 2014 I hurt my friends feelings by rejecting a gift! I have no problem talking to people for work, but when I’m not working, I am so lonely and isolated. How dare you judge anyone elses feelings.. just because you found a name for your condition and probably went to a doctor dosent mean anyone elses experiences are bullshit or pretend. swaranjali November 27th, 2016 But once she gets married, she would be busy with her life and house affairs, how would she have time for me. real me did not like drugs, my feelings did…. I hate the fact that I can say I love and believe in Christ, when in fact I’m just being the worst hypocrite. Best to all My children took me away and desided it is time they take care of their mother. Are the activities you enjoy social? I feel you. This is a tough world to be sensitive in. I have a chronic illness too. The words may work for people who like to pretend they are lonely, but you have NEVER experienced real loneliness unless you have solipsism. wayne July 10th, 2014 Reply kia April 6th, 2014 Dawson January 31st, 2014 Reply Join the LKC newsletter to get 10% off your next order. I actuely am popular and have great friends who love me but I still feel alone. Lonely. i wish if i drink one cup of coffee in peace . Reply Their stance on Mental Health and Gender Equality definitely sets them apart from the rest. I feel like no one likes me.. How long that will last I don’t know. And it seems like you have a good head on your shoulders to see that things are “off”. I wish I could access a counselling service here like back home! I’m currently studying abroad and its been a few months now. Yet I love you. It’s a non-crisis service, so do never think your issues are not a good enough reason to reach out for support. The main causes of loneliness being: There are other psychological and developmental factors that can lead to feeling alone. With hid friends, family and strangerd who told him, he shoild not talk that way about your wife and avoided him. i keep evaluating myself, but always end up alone… nothing has changed. I get very jealous of others too, even just random happy people I see, groups of friends, couples, you name it. Anne January 17th, 2017 I know it can’t be easy. I get it. Sorry to hear you are lonely and depressed. I feel very lonely for no reason I have been having social anixiety I saw a few people on the city bus and became very shy some people think I’m stupid and I try to hard to fit, Hey, I feel exactly like u. We have limited communication while on he’s on deployment. I feel very much the same way, i keep hoping i will find people like you have discribed. Reply Tags: alone, depression, isolated, isolation, loneliness, lonely, loss, sad Maybe we all had this idea that joy and sadness cannot co-exist together. preturi mici October 11th, 2014 Reply Are you an expert or a Doctor? I wonder if these feelings are a call from the universe to dig deep and attune with our inner selves. I am vain and I pray GOD gets rid of that sin as I hate it but I am extremely concerned about my appearance , my weight how I look. Ah-ri December 3rd, 2016 Once someone recognizes (experiences) that the label of mental illness is a farce, that the laws of nature or God (whatever the philosophy); that natural law trumps aristocratic, contrived, dogmatic law, he/she instantly is on the road to full healing and interconnection. I want them to put a smile on his face. Holly Scott May 25th, 2020 Hi Sandy, This is raj from India and I am 19 years old and my father was seperated with my mother and i hate him becuase he was gone away with another lady before i was born and right now I was away from my family and for my carrier and studies it was six months ago back on November 2013 and I was never been alone but now i have to be alone to achieve my carrier goals and i have to manage myself everything in this teen age even though I have enough friends but they are not too close and I feel like some people are trying to avoid me but I don’t know why eventhough I am good and honest with them and some friends being busy in their works and they are too far away from me & i am single i dont have girl friend and my profession is information technology but unluckily I don’t get some good friends in my office because of age factor and now presently i am feeling alone and feeling like depressed and I don’t know with whom I can also share that and I had enough confidence that I can achieve my goals but now I am feeling lacking of self confidence because of a loneliness and being depressed and planning to continue my higher studies in Australia when I got financially good for that and wish to get some good friends who can share my happiness and also my sadness and i do see some people being friends only for money & I hate that kind of people and I do see here many people posted here and I wish everyone will get out from loneliness and depression and have a happiest and peaceful life soon and I will pray to the god for the same .. 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